Tonight it's Nick Clegg's turn for a Sunday evening party leader's interview - with Mary Nightingale on ITV1 at 10:15pm.
Miriam Gonzalez Durantez (Nick's wife) also appears in the programme. At first I was dismayed that Miriam might be wheeled out as yet another politician’s wife, dreading revelations about
socks or other
foundation garments...
Until I watched her in
this extract :
I don't like that name: "political wife". I'm the wife of a politician... I don't have a role. I'm just married to him...
...It's a personal choice and I think it's perfectly possible to have a normal life where you let people see how you live, and I understand that they may want to look into it.
But one thing is to let people have a look at your life so that they get to know the politician, the person, and a different thing in my view is to put together a sugary-coated image of yourself in the hope that that brings you votes. It's not that I wouldn't do that - it's that Nick would never agree to do that either. So it has to be possible, because that's what we are going to do.
The Sunday papers have already portrayed Miriam's support for her husband with a tinge of disdain: “
middling”, a
refusal, "
too busy".
The
Telegraph, in a purse-lipped reminder of its priorities for her, refers to "Miriam Clegg" - a name by which she is not even known – then calls her “Mrs Clegg” nine times in the rest of the article. Gosh, is it
really still the 1950s?
Nick's not some poor latchkey husband. Miriam Gonzales Durantez is a mother of three young children and has a successful career whilst being clearly supportive of Nick's work. However, the mainstream media will misrepresent Miriam's choices as long as their view of a "good" politician's wife remains as hackneyed as their binary view of politics.
What's actually being reported here is a media mindset, which is not to be confused with the news, nor indeed the facts. It's patronising to voters to suggest that the men who lead the three main parties need to be buttressed by the constant presence of their wives - whether on the campaign trail or the conference platform.
The notion that there's only one type of politician's spouse is as unrealistic and outdated as the traditional image of one acceptable type of family. Life's not like that. Voters aren't like that.
Political families already come in all shapes and sizes, and people had better get used to it. You might not think it, given the coverage, but politicians can be female, gay, parents, child-free, married, single or in civil partnerships.
To concentrate on the Leader's wife is also to ignore the work of other women in the Liberal Democrats. The Lib Dems' real "First Lady" is their President, Ros Scott; we have excellent women MPs in Jo Swinson, Lynne Featherstone and more. Hundreds of women in the party, myself included, will be working hard in the coming elections. While we'll do our bit, Miriam will do hers.
Will tonight's interview give Too Much Information? Watch ITV1 tonight at 10:15 to find out.
Crossposted from Liberal Democrat Voice, an independent, collaborative website run by Liberal Democrat activists. Helen is a contributing editor at the site.